You Want Me to Give up What??? 

Have you ever asked for something, finally got it, and then realized you may not have thought that thing all the way through?It could be a job you thought you wanted, until the stress came with it. A car you were excited about, until that first payment hit your account and humbled your whole household. A relationship you prayed for, but somehow ignored all the red flags waving like they were in a parade. Sometimes we ask for something because it looks good from a distance. But once it gets close, we start noticing the cost. That is when life quietly asks, “You sure you want that?”

That reminds me of 1 Samuel 8. The people of Israel came to Samuel and asked for a king. On the surface, that may not sound like a terrible request. Other nations had kings. Kings gave visible leadership. Kings led armies. Kings made decisions. Kings looked strong. But Israel was not supposed to be like every other nation. The Heavenly Father was their King. He had delivered them, provided for them, led them, protected them, corrected them, and sustained them. But the people looked around at other nations and decided they wanted what everybody else had.

Boy, that hit home right there. 

Because sometimes the problem is not that we do not have enough. Sometimes the problem is that we start comparing what God gave us to what somebody else has. Samuel was troubled by their request, so he went and talked with the Lord. And the Heavenly Father told Samuel something powerful. He said the people had not rejected Samuel; they had rejected Him as their King.

That is a heavy statement.

Their request was not just about leadership. It was about trust. They wanted something visible because they were struggling to trust the invisible God who had been faithful the whole time. But God told Samuel to warn them. Samuel explained what a king would do. He told them a king would take their sons, their daughters, their fields, their vineyards, their servants, their livestock, and a portion of what they produced.

In other words, “You can have what you are asking for, but you need to understand what it will cost you.” And still, the people insisted. Before we judge them too quickly, we may need to check ourselves. How many times have we asked the Heavenly Father for something He was trying to warn us about? How many times did we ignore the pause in our spirit? How many times did we ask for something because it looked good on somebody else? Sometimes we want the title, but we do not understand the weight. We want the platform, but not the pressure. We want the relationship, but ignore the character. We want the opportunity, but do not count the cost.

That is why we must be careful about what we ask for. Not because the Heavenly Father is trying to keep good things from us, but because He knows what comes attached to the things we desire. Sometimes His warning is mercy. Sometimes His delay is protection. Sometimes His “no” is love. Sometimes His “not yet” is wisdom. The safest prayer is not, “Lord, give me what I want.” The safest prayer is, “Lord, shape my desires so I want what is good, right, and pleasing to You.” Israel asked for a king. But they already had the King they needed. And sometimes we do too.

Next Step

Take a moment today and think about something you have been asking the Heavenly Father for. Then ask yourself honestly: Do I want this because God is leading me, or because I am comparing my life to someone else’s or I just want what I want? Because sometimes the greatest blessing is not God giving us what we asked for. Sometimes the greatest blessing is Him protecting us from what we thought we wanted.

God bless you, God keep you. God loves you and I love you too!